by Ayandola Ayanleke | Jan 6, 2020 | Thoughts & Reflections
2019 has come to an end and just like everybody else, I experienced it all. I laughed, I cried. I had the ups and downs. I had cause for celebration and otherwise. I had victories and I also failed. I made great decisions and I made mistakes. I am grateful for the...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | Sep 28, 2019 | Empowerment, Lifestyle, Thoughts & Reflections
In recent times, women have found the term “beauty and brains” derogatory, and you find many men frustrated when they meet a woman who doesn’t see it complimentary because, as far as they are concerned, it is supposed to be a compliment. “Attractive women with brains...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | May 3, 2019 | Thoughts & Reflections
No man is an island; I believe this and I agree with it. To me, that means we all need each other. In fact, one of my best songs to describe the situation, would be this song we sang in my fellowship in Secondary School. Part of the lyrics says, “You are...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | Mar 22, 2019 | Lifestyle
“He loves you, that’s why he is cheating behind your back and not to your face.” “No matter what he does, he will still come back to me.” “I am the main chick, the one he comes back home to. The side chicks are just lewd women he sleeps with.” How many times have we...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | Mar 17, 2019 | Thoughts & Reflections
There is usually so much talk about women hating on women, women not supporting other women, and women being their own worst enemies. There are two interpretations of this. I agree with one of the interpretations but disagree entirely with the other interpretation....