by Ayandola Ayanleke | Feb 2, 2022 | Thoughts & Reflections
I believe one of the biggest challenges we face as feminists is seeing women making patriarchal choices or choices we consider patriarchal and understanding it’s their choice. Honestly, this might seem like the easiest thing to do because we are advocating for...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | Apr 20, 2021 | Empowerment, Lifestyle, Thoughts & Reflections
A while back, Ayandola wrote an article on female bosses because of the unfair slander of female bosses. If there is one clear thing, the code of conduct used to assess female colleagues and bosses is very different from those applied to their male counterparts and...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | Feb 3, 2021 | Short Story
My twin sister is mischievous. I put up with her – I mean – she is my twin and my best friend, so I kind of have to. But sometimes, she exasperates me. Like now. What she is explaining to me right now is beyond ridiculous. I was enjoying a quiet nap when...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | Apr 13, 2020 | Empowerment, Lifestyle, Thoughts & Reflections
Towards the end of last year or was it the year before, a particular lady trended on Twitter in Nigeria because she made a thread talking about how she wished she knew early on not to get married and give birth. According to her, she had a problem settling into her...
by Ayandola Ayanleke | Feb 19, 2020 | Thoughts & Reflections
“I don’t want to have a female boss” “Female bosses are wicked.” You have probably heard this said a number of times or even said it yourself. When I was a lot younger and I would say, ignorant, I believed this too, even without having a female boss. You know how...
