What Does She Know?

What Does She Know?

“He has done it again,” Lily lamented. “Who? And what did he do?” her friend, Lola asked perplexed. They were in Lily’s house, seated by the pool, treating themselves to a cold drink of Chapman that, somehow, Lily’s chef had finally...
No Justification

No Justification

You want to talk about modesty … all well and good. As far as I am concerned, we need more narratives around modesty. I am old-fashioned and also a Christian, so I am all for modesty. You want to talk about women learning to be civil … please go ahead. We have too...
The African Man is Confused

The African Man is Confused

I wrote about the tales of an African woman a while back and while many women agreed with me, some men accused me of just being another bitter feminist.  Such is life! While I do not agree that bitterness was the tone of that post, but simply me addressing the flawed...
We Are Our Own Enemies

We Are Our Own Enemies

I had a class in women development recently and it was quite a controversial class. Most of what we discussed were the factors that hindered the development of women, and how these factors were directly or indirectly connected to men.  Hence, the controversy! Over the...
Gifts Are Not Meant To Be Hidden

Gifts Are Not Meant To Be Hidden

It was a fear like I had never known before. A lot of people who know me, know I am scared of animals. And as much as I have tried to react differently to them, I always end up at square one. But unlike most people think, I do not hate animals; I actually love them …...