Culture

Make Love To Me

17th June 2019 Felly Oyuga 2

I am forty. They said this would be my sexual peak. I kind of thought they meant that I would have a lot of great sex. I was looking forward to that. I think they […]

Culture

Friends Of The Dead

13th March 2019 Felly Oyuga 2

During my father’s funeral, the chief insisted on giving a short speech, but after he had had something to eat. So after eating, the chief came back to the gathering, tummy full and started his […]

Empowerment

Wear Your Big Girl Panties

29th August 2018 Felly Oyuga 0

I am going through my Whatsapp and come across a post in one of our groups.  The post is about a woman who posted on Facebook that her husband watches porn with their six-year-old son. […]

Empowerment

The Mistress. Evil?

26th January 2018 Felly Oyuga 1

I had the misfortune of reading a Facebook post by a not so bright man, who said that infidelity would stop if women stopped being their own enemies and said no to men. Many women liked and shared the post. It seems […]

Family

Angel Without Wings

6th December 2017 Felly Oyuga 3

  It was the worst time of my life.  My marriage was falling apart.  I had to remind myself to breath, eat and even shower.  I barely combed my hair.  He always smiled at me […]

Empowerment

Permission To Enjoy Sex!

18th October 2017 Felly Oyuga 1

At twenty-two, I told my mother I was pregnant. I was young, unwed and my mother was a staunch Christian. I was expecting her to throw her mug of tea at me. So after blurting out , ‘I’m […]

Love & Sex

I Am Not A Reptile

27th September 2017 Felly Oyuga 0

Yesterday I shared life, hot blood gushed from my veins into tubes. They say the only way to avoid a wizard is to have cold blood. I can’t be what I am not. So you followed my scent. Hot blood scent. Happy. […]

Culture

Religion And The African Woman

22nd August 2017 Felly Oyuga 3

In my opinion, there is no greater hindrance to the growth and development of the African woman like religion.  Before you get excited or call me a heathen, let me make it clear that I […]

Culture

The Village Is Back!

5th July 2017 Felly Oyuga 1

As African women, we need to realise that one of the best things to happen to us is social media. In the days of old, the African woman had a huge support network. She had […]